We hear about
people cheating all the time. When someone is called a cheater they are
actually being called a “fraud,” or “trickster, “or charlatan,” or “rogue,” or “swindler.”
It’s definitely not a compliment. It has become so common that most people are
not even surprised when they hear about a cheater. What gets lost in the cesspool of cheating is
the one who is cheated on. No matter how good or bad a person is; they don’t deserve
to be cheated on. If the relationship has gotten to the point where cheating is
a serious and tempting option, get help or end the relationship. If you’re
married, use the Good Book for help. However, there are some people who cheat,
simply because they are cheaters. These are the ones who leave the most
devastation in their wake. Because the one they cheated on didn’t see it coming
and they are shocked when they hear about. Nothing hurts worse than heartbreak
of this kind, because you trusted the person from the purest place. Whether a person remains in the relationship with
the cheater or not; building trust again borders on “almost” impossible. A
cheater may seek to regain what they once had with their love one and won’t be
able to accomplish it; at least not without the help of divine intervention. A
cheater changes the relationship between themselves and the other person
forever; whether they stay or go. Yes, there is forgiveness and people do survive
cheating, but like the loss of innocence it alters the original purity of the
relationship. Trust is one of the most pure and safest benefits of love. Trust
is the most sought after component of all relationships. Few people enjoy the
gem of trust, and if you are one of them hold onto it, because what you possess
is truly rare. Having someone who genuinely loves and trusts you is the
greatest gift on earth, don’t taint it by cheating. Why? Because a cheater
cheats everybody involved out of what is foundationally good about loving
relationships. I have only one thing left to say, especially to those who may
be thinking about cheating: DON’T DO IT!
Pensacola
Helene
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