Sex is not the
intimacy. It is an act of intimacy; that was meant to express the intercourse
that had already taken place between two hearts. Enduring love allows intimacy
to develop in the heart first and why real lovers wait for the proper time to
engage in sex. When intimacy is learned in this way, love will be easier to
maintain in the long run of the relationship. The Good Book didn’t have us
sustain from sexual pleasure as a punishment, but so we don’t miss out on what
truly matters in the area of intimacy: two hearts becoming one, not simple two
bodies. If you shape your experience of intimacy around the act; you will find
intimacy limited to that act. However, if you shape your intimacy around the
intercourse of two hearts, it will outlast the act, which always alters with
age and maturity. No matter who you are; no matter how good you are sexually,
no matter how liberal you are in engaging in the sexual act – you will come
looking for real intimacy one day. So learn and train yourself in what real
intimacy is while the spring still blossoms.
For when the winter comes and it will; the heart may be too tattered
by the “act” to know real intimacy, or to find it, or even recognize it staring
you right in the face. Real intimacy
starts with the intercourse of the heart, not the body.
Pensacola Helene
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